Tackling any situation is not always about winning. A winner is a person who acknowledges a problem, offers a solution and remains assertive. There are many issues in personal and work life that become a prejudiced matter. Views and opinions differ and to offer a unique solution one has to make use of team work. There are simple solutions to grave problems and all can be achieved with a proper emotional restraint. As human beings we appreciate a good rapport and camaraderie at work. In our personal lives too, we look forward for happy equations with everybody.
Once the comfort zones are tampered, it becomes difficult for anyone to fall in place. During such a time we need to analyze the situation. Speaking your mind would mean speaking what is right according to you. In case a heated argument is going on and as a team leader or role player you want to hear both sides out. For the same, you will need to communicate a sense of calm and look into both the parties with an indifferent view. Most of the mistakes happen when acted in haste. A control on behavior takes out the aspiration to prove another person down and take control of a situation.
Work pressure builds each day and at times a brainstorming session can get unruly. There could be an irate customer and other matters which take your time. Working out a solution will do well for all of us. Communication here has to be to the point, cool and very much in command of ourselves. The best part is to maintain poise at all times. Opportunities come and go and hence it is best to wait and watch as things unfold. Taking prompt decision and wise ones is recommended as per the severity of any situation.
All cannot be learnt in a day. There are personal view points or parameters to any subject. We have clashes with other because our comfort zone is challenged. Taking long breaks is recommended even while doing any important work. This helps you to regain your composure and break a monotone task. If you are mind is alive at all times, there will be more focus and thereby enhanced emotional IQ. Hobby classes, interaction and improving soft skills surely recharges your batteries to help you deal better.