The Hidden Factor (Attitude!)

Many times, we easily comment on the behavior of others. Most of the relationships we break are because we get upset with the behavior of others. We are also most easily hurt when others comment on our behavior.

What is this mesmerizing thing about behavior,which,seems to be the deciding factor in our life…on the surface…it is visible …but it seems to come from inside us.


Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it-Lou Holtz

You might be very competent in your area of work and also clear on the reasons for doing something. But, if your attitude is wrong, all the ability in the world and motivation is not going to take you anywhere in your life.

In order to change your Attitude, what is the hidden source inside, you need to tackle? Or before, you attempt the same, is there a check to determine, what is your Attitude? The following test will determine your attitude:

If you are feeling glad, your Attitude is Positive.
If you are feeling
sad, mad, or scared, your Attitude is Negative.
If the feelings are the driving force behind your attitude, it is important to work on the causes behind our feelings. Our feelings are a result of our thinking. Hence, it is important to work on our thinking.

Unfortunately, the world is very negative. So, we are left with two choices:

Change the Negative World.
Change our Thinking.
You can decide which is easier….!!! Now, the negativity surrounding us does not allow us to switch on our mind and say: Let us do some positive thinking! Under such circumstances, what is our hope?

Using simple techniques, one can bring a sea change in our attitude. Are you ready to learn how to go about changing your attitude?

We have a right to choose our attitude. – Viktor Frankl

Arnab Ghosh

My name is Arnab Ghosh. I have been working as a Corporate professional for the past 19 years. After completing my graduation from City College {University of Calcutta}, I started my career with R.S.Software India, followed by Vedika Software Pvt.Ltd. Have worked with industry giants such as Convergys, Satyam Nipuna Services, Wipro BPO, Tata Teleservices Limited, Aircel, TaxiForSure, Brainware University among others. I am a certified trainer from Aircel Academy – Manager As a Coach & Trainer. I have also completed certifications from TBO Academy & Alison Education in the field of “Soft Skills“, the knowledge of which I apply to my students at my University regularly. I have also successfully completed “The Fundamentals of Digital Marketing” certification from Google and “Digital Marketing Course” from TBO Academy. I was awarded “Google Analytics for Beginners” certificate by Google after successfully completing their course. I have achieved CEFR level B2 (Upper Intermediate) in a test of English proficiency from the British Council English Score. I am a bundle of drive, energy, commitment, and dedication and firmly believe in living my life in my own terms, be it working my heart out to achieve business targets or enjoying my spare time doing things that give me joy and feelings of contentment. My hobbies include reading books & listening to music and blogging. I sincerely believe that one should never lose focus in life and that one has to put in a lot of hard work & effort to reach the top.

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